当一个人在“碰钉”过后，头脑才会惊醒过来，再静静的思考，开始从第二个角度去分析事情，并且能看透许多东西，不只是表面上的，还有隐藏的。。
"No pain, no gain", this phrase best describe to human being...Sometimes we have to go through something "pain", then this is the time our mind will "wake up" and able to see a lot of things that are not "on the surface"...We will start to think and understand a lot of things from different perspectives...
我所领悟到的是别把朋友当作“水鱼”来看待。。无可否认，当我们遇到某些事故，朋友会是第一个人浮现在脑海里，并要求他帮助，但是现实中往往都是相反的。。
The most important "lesson" that i have learnt is do not treat friends as "water fish". Sometimes it is understandable that we need help from friends during emergency, but i realized that the phenomenon that occur around us is the "opposite" of it...
The most important "lesson" that i have learnt is do not treat friends as "water fish". Sometimes it is understandable that we need help from friends during emergency, but i realized that the phenomenon that occur around us is the "opposite" of it...
因此，我会提醒自己尽量不要麻烦朋友因为欠人家人情是很难还的。。即使朋友是很愿意伸出援手，但自己总是无法“过”自己的那关， 认为自己欠别人人情。。
Therefore, i will try my best to avoid giving troubles to friends if not neccessary even they're my good friends because we will "owe" them at the end...Although the viewpoint of our friends are willing to give helps, but definitely i will have the feeling of "owing something" to them...
Therefore, i will try my best to avoid giving troubles to friends if not neccessary even they're my good friends because we will "owe" them at the end...Although the viewpoint of our friends are willing to give helps, but definitely i will have the feeling of "owing something" to them...
有时候，人会无意间给予朋友麻烦。。当开口问的时候，朋友通常都不会拒绝，因为我们已经开口了。。例如：“可以载我吗？；当你要来时，给我一通电话！；当你到了我家门口，拨一通电话通知我！”
On the other angle of view, sometimes we do not realize that we're giving a lot of troubles to friends...At the same time our friends definitely WILL NOT say NO to us when we request them for help such as "can u fetch me? ; give me a call when the time you come! please call me when your car reach my home!” and etc....
若是这样，我宁愿别人欠我，也不要我欠别人，但是世界上有几个人会这样，所以尽力不要麻烦到朋友就是了。。当我们安静地想想，问题就会自然而然地浮现在脑海里，然后分析它，会觉得自己亏欠别人太多了！！
Therefore, i will rather let people owe me more than i owe people...I do not admit that i am perfect but honestly to tell, sometimes we're not even realize that the trouble-maker are ourselves...When the time we sit still and recall back, we will able to identify all the problems and start to analyze it and eventually feel sorry to our friends..
Friendship Forever~~!! We should appreciate the "chance" given by the God to know each others and formed in the same class~~~!! Cheers~~!!
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