不知道为什么人就是那么犯贱的。。即使是朋友，都会被人在后面“捅”你一刀。。我没说我是十全十美，有时候也会在朋友后面给他或她“一个惊喜”。。说的时候总是说得“津津有味”，当离开了此话题，心情总是忐忑不安，好像觉得自己有罪恶感。
Although we are friends with each other, the phenomenon of "backstab" always be there and we couldn't run away from that...When the conversation started, usually we will talk until "above got alot, below has nothing"...In my case, i always felt guilty when i fell into this kind of conversation...
人走到哪里，都是会被人讲到哪里。。我不否认有时候在语言上间接会“得罪别人”，但有时候嘴巴和心理总不合一，就这样“冒出了”无意间得罪人的字眼。。当感觉到真的“烧到”别人的时候，已经后悔莫及了。。
Everywhere we go, there are rumors around us....i admitted that sometimes my words will offend towards other...As sometimes the mouth couldn't speak from the heart as well as be frank and forthright, the words definitely will "burn" on others..
即使这个时候向别人道歉，也无补于事了，因为那一根刺已经“插”进别人的心了，因此这个话题将会被别人在你“后面”说多一遍，有盐的加盐，有醋的加醋。。何苦呢？？我也不例外，在讲的过程是蛮过瘾的，事后就觉得自己伤害了朋友。。
Apology is useless as the words already "sting" on the heart...Therefore, this matter will be brought behind to "discuss" again...I do not deny that the process of talking behind is so "exciting", but at the end the feeling will appear automatically that it hurts friends..
当自己离开了这一群朋友的话题，然后转移到另一群朋友的话题，话题又回到之前的是非，就好象“两头蛇”在给所谓的“意见”。。我也不否认我没做过此事，因为无可否认这是一件蛮过瘾的事， 但是心里又怕当事人知道。。真的很无奈～～！！
When the conversation of Group A ended, Group B will starts another conversation to talk about group A again, like a snake has "2 heads"...On the other hand, we scared that the particular person will know that we're speading rumors everywhere...
经过了这所谓的“风风雨雨”，我在改变着用第二个角度去看待此事情，也许会有不同的体会，也了解有时候人真的会无意间讲出一些令人讨厌的话。。我也不保证我可以完全做到，至少要开始控制自己，也许有时候也会不经意地犯下此错。。
Therefore, i'm not saying that i'm 100% is right, but i will look at different perspectives and angles and try to understand friends because sometimes humans really hard to control what have come out from the mouth...I do not guarantee that i can do it, but at least try to control myself...
即使不是好朋友，也因该彼此体谅对方，因为真的没有任何人是十全十美的。。我真的开始觉得如果再这样下去，是是非非只会越来越多，因为彼此都在猜测对方是否在后面“送我一程”。。
Although we're not good/best friends, try to understand each others as non of us are perfect...If this phenomenon keeps continue, rumors will getting more and more and never will come to an end...
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